How To Handle Failure Without Being Defensive

It’s true, mistakes make you feel down. Some people around you will laugh at you when they see you fail

And it feels like you don’t want to try again. Most of us are sometimes too much focusing on what other people say.

And we better choose not to try than to expose our weaknesses. We want other people’s approval to do something they like than to follow your own instinct.

Remember, you should not count people who hate you. Be motivated from inside not from outside despite no one believes in you. Just follow the good intention of your heart regardless if people notice it or not.

Be selfless. Why? Because it doesn’t make you feel defensive when you make a mistake. Because you learn to accept who you are and how vulnerable you are. And you don’t see yourself like someone who is above others. You see yourself as an ordinary person who makes mistakes.

People might see some wrong grammar from my blog. I don’t care!. I accept the reality that I’m not good at English. But I strive to improve it. I will not notice my mistakes if I will not publish my blog posts.

I don’t count haters. I count people that are inspired by what I share.

If you have a plan, take action. When you fail, forgive yourself. When people laugh at you, be comfortable with it. Just feel empty.

Again, in order to handle failure without being defensive, make a habit of always being selfless.